1st a definition-ish: Success as is used in this particular blog infers to financial stability, emotional stability, and spiritual stability. Not just rich!

So, I was at the “K” last night watching the Kansas City Royals Loose.
When the pitcher allowed the bases to get loaded (in the 4th inning) and then gave over a Grand Slam to the White Sox, I was reminded of the sinking gut feeling I used to get rooting for the Cubs.
It’s a feeling I’ve never like.
It’s that sinking feeling that eventually made me give up on the Cubbies and root for the Cardinals (it was nice to root for someone who actually was successful).
In fact I was silently rooting for the Sox anyway, but it wasn’t that exiting to watch the Royals do what they do best – Loose. And they were after all – the underdogs last night.
But the group I was with was anti-sox and vaguely pro-KC. So I tried to be nice and root with them.
Having said all of that, I have come to many realizations in my life and one of them is that there aren’t any true underdogs anymore.
Take pro baseball for instance:
Some say Florida’s pro team (marlins) bought themselves into a World Series in ’99 and ’03, and they barely have made the playoffs before or since.
So what you say?
So I say that the reason why teams like The Chicago Cubs and the K.C. Royals always loose and are always underdogs is because they are fashioned to be that way. They could be fashioned to be winners, but there are ownership and managerial forces at work to keep them as loosing underdogs.
So why care for them?
And what does that have to do with your everyday underdog? the ‘little guy/gal’?
Welp, it’s about bootstraps.
Even as I type this blog, I realize I am avoiding other things that would make my life more productive and more successful. PLENTY Other things.
Should I then blame others who are doing things to make their lives successful for my own choice of mediocrity?
Should I profess to be the downtrodden underdog?
or should I admit that I am undisciplined and would rather wax philosophic than garner life success?
And it isn’t just me.
People feel good when they root for the underdog.
People want to cheer on the possibility of the little guy/gal making a big impact! (well that is, until she runs for VP, but that’s another blog)
People like rooting against the odds.
People like to cheer on would be challenger from the streets who takes on the fat cats (unless it’s those who would best America at the olympics, then we’re not so in favor of the little guys – but again – another blog).
But that’s one reason why shows like “American Idol” are so successful – the underdog – who still has talent can indeed become the next star.
But I must protest that a man who has spent his life in hard labor at the factory and hasn’t a dime to show for it upon retirement isn’t the underdog.
- Instead that is a man who never took his life into his own hands and never did what he needed to do to be successful.
Unless that was the life he wanted. Then he shouldn’t complain and we shouldn’t complain on his behalf.
That’s just one theoretical example (However, it’s an example I am genetically related to – So I know this ‘theoretical’ well).
People who are unsuccessful in life have refused to accept that it has rules – breakable and unbreakable both, but rules nonetheless.
The best rule out there is the more educated you are, the more likely you will succeed. – PERIOD
HARD WORK
It drives me nuts to hear people with a HS diploma, who never felt education was important complain that they got the shaft in life. After all, what they knew was that life was about hard work.
- hard work is but 1/3rd of a successful life IMHO
- And most people whom I’ve met that are indeed hard workers are usually hard workers more so on the job – where they have to be to get paid, and less so in the home, where they feel they don’t have to be because they bring home the money. It’s an archaic model of family, but people still try it and complain it’s not successful.
DISCIPLINE
- What is often missing in the ‘underdog’s’ life is discipline. it’s great that He gets up on time, clocks in at the foundry 5 minutes before his shift and never has had a sick day for 6 years running. But when he gets off work and decides the bar is more worthy of his paycheck, comes home late to a distraught wife and screaming kids that he’s neglected (he is after all the under appreciated underdog) and his personal life is in chaos – yes Chaos.
He will NOT ever be successful, financially or otherwise.
EDUCATION
- What Mr. hard work and no discipline outside of the clock punching on the job fails to realize is that he needed an education further than H.S. if he wanted to have some actual control over his personal destiny and not give it completely over to union bosses or corporations with pink slips.
- And nowadays, anyone who says that they can’t get afford a college education is either too ignorant to realize the breadth of opportunities available, or is just lying through their teeth. One CAN get at least an undergraduate degree fairly easily has one the DISCIPLINE and drive to do work they don’t want to do.
Why does an undergraduate matter anyway?
As most people who have one will tell you, it isn’t that much of an education – really. It’s not like an undergrad isn’t something most people couldn’t have self taught had they the time and the library resources. Anyone can be taught to read – and anyone can learn the collegiate verbiage that is sounds learned.
An undergraduate degree tells an employer that you actually can “Stick it out”. that the bearer of the piece of paper has had the discipline to get the degree in the first place.
That’s what that paper is for.
Frankly, nowadays, one needs a Masters degree to get ahead, and that is slightly more than just a piece of paper, but it is the same principle.
Having said that,
The one thing actually garnering an undergraduate degree does do, is it opens one up to possibilities they never knew existed.
having said that, EDUCATION is a life long process. And if people aren’t consistently learning (even post their degree), by the very fact that everyone else is, it will make that individual less successful.
One Exception,
The luck/talent factor – this is something that has (due to media saturation) skewed the country’s perception of success. It may come as a shock to people, but the overwhelming majority of aspiring actors NEVER make it big. The Overwhelming majority of starving artists end up in other careers wishing they were starving artists being discovered by someone who recognizes their talents. it’s all silly.
But, there is a small percentage (I would argue less than 1/2 of 1 percent) of society that are successful because they fell into it or because they had talent no one else had, but that is rare indeed.
So…
Root for the underdog if you’d like, but root for them to get an education and get discipline. And in the case of pro ball, root for the management and ownership to care about successful seasons rather than simply selling tickets.
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